heyy every1,
today I want to write about something I've been thinking about a lot.
One thing my Father always said to me was "Leave the friends that hurt and the right ones will come". For a long time I was scared, not about having no friends but that if the people I feel that don't treat me well and I do decide to leave them, that I'd be rejected by well, everyone.
To clear things up this was definitely NOT the case. This school year I felt as if my friends weren't interested in me any more so and I had a small but helpful plan. So if you still go to school the first thing I advise you, is to not sit next to your best friend when you get to choose where you sit at the start of the school year!
This not only helps you when there's trouble between friends but also you get to know other people in your class a lot better!
I had the pleasure of sitting right at the front behind the teachers desk, next to two of the most friendliest people ever!
These two girls have a lovely mind set. They all think positive and look on the bright side! I've just about come out of a dark corner in my life and finding people that respect me, listen and make you laugh really helps. Of course no one can be happy and positive all the time, that's totally normal and understandable, take a little step at a time and gradually everything will slowly fall into place.
Now I know for many people with depression for example, it's not all about friends, often you just don't feel anything or you don't know what's wrong but ever since I've had the lovely support of my family and feeling accepted in my class I mentally feel a thousand times better.
I know you're probably thinking that it's not a good idea to depend on people to make you happy. I am not saying this at all. I believe that happiness isn't a choice and I've always had riots with people who say it is!
However when you see these positive people living their lives you see their inspiration and at least for me, I found things that I enjoy in life and it gave me so much hope and I find myself thinking, Hey! I can be like that too! I want to share this happy feeling with others and help them out like these and many other wonderful people have helped me! By showing me that happiness is precious but also the key to life.
It's unbelievable how much one person can affect your life, find the one that leads you to light instead of pushing you back into your bedroom corner!
That's all for now, good night!xx
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